Could Your Wife Have Another Man?
What are the chances your wife is busy with someone else?
While it is something you hate to think about, there is always that possibility it could happen. If it does, how will you handle such a situation?
For many men, finding out their wife is busy with another individual can change their life for years to come. From the prospect of the marriage ending to getting on with their life when it does; things can be tough.
Can You Spot Trouble in Paradise?
If you have an inkling your wife is cheating, there’s a good chance one or more of the following signs will be in front of you.
- She’s often gone – If your wife was a homebody up to now, is she gone a lot these days? In the event you said yes, that can be a sign of trouble. While she may be working more or even doing things with friends, what if it is only one person she spends more time with? Since you should know each other’s schedules well, your wife being gone more often can be a red flag to keep an eye on. It could be nothing or it may well be something.
- Talk is rare – If you and your wife had a good line of communication over time, has that changed as of late? It may be a case of where she does not want to talk. This can be for fear of you asking too many questions about her pattern or patterns of behavior as of late. In the event this is the case, how will you go about finding out if there is an affair going on right under your nose? Approach the matter with care. That said do your best to get the information you need to figure out what is up.
- Contribute to expenses – If and your wife split bills down the middle, has this changed? From monthly car payments to rent and more, you may now find yourself footing much of the expenses. If it has, this can be a sign of trouble on the horizon. She may be putting money away in a separate bank account only for her. If this is true, it may be because she plans on moving out sooner than later.
- Withdrawing from events – Last, if your wife has been busy with family and friends, is this changing? If it is, it can be a telltale sign of trouble in your marriage. She may be using some or much of the time often spent with you for someone else. If this is the case, you are the one on the outside left looking in. Do your best to look for this and other signs that your marriage is at a turning point.
Going through infidelity in a marriage can be one of the hardest things one has to deal with during their life.
That said do your best to get to the bottom of it before it eats away at you.